CBT

Cognitive behavioral therapy can be helpful in treating; eating disorders, anxiety disorders (panic attacks, phobia's, social anxiety etc.), depression, personality disorders, low self-esteem / low confidence and anger management.

TALKS

I host talks at schools, teaching young people how to be mindful and cope with everyday anxieties and pressures. These sessions can be for entire classes or smaller groups.

VIRTUAL

Some people prefer the emotional security of their own home or find it difficult to travel. I therefore offer therapy sessions over Skype. Many clients find these appointments are easier to maintain and fit in with their schedules.

WHERE I WORK

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I am a cognitive behavioural therapist based in Cranbrook, Kent. I work with adults, but specialise in working with young people. I have specialist training in the treatment of eating disorders.

After gaining a diploma in Psychodynamic Psychotherapy in 1998, I established a therapy service in West Belfast, Northern Ireland. I was heavily involved in working with young people and became acutely aware of the need for specialist therapy services particularly in the field of eating disorders. In 2001 I established a therapeutic clinic for eating disorders, working closely with GPs and other health professionals. In 2002 I gained a diploma in the Supervision of Counsellors.

In 2004 I moved back to England and set up my own private practice.

In 2008 I completed an MSc in Cognitive Psychotherapy.

I am able to see clients at my private rooms in Cranbrook, Kent.

For those who prefer not to travel, I offer a virtual consultation service via Skype.

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Grainne
GRAINNE HASHEMI
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helping young people to overcome their challenges

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Q: What is cognitive behavior therapy?

Cognitive behavior therapy is one of the few forms of psychotherapy that has been scientifically tested and found to be effective in hundreds of clinical trials for many different disorders. In contrast to other forms of psychotherapy, cognitive therapy is usually more focused on the present, more time-limited, and more problem-solving oriented. In addition, patients learn specific skills that they can use for the rest of their lives. These skills involve identifying distorted thinking, modifying beliefs, relating to others in different ways, and changing behaviors.

Q: What is the theory behind cognitive behavior therapy?

Cognitive behavior therapy is based on the cognitive model: the way we perceive situations influences how we feel emotionally. For example, one person reading this website might think, "Wow! This sounds good, it's just what I've always been looking for!" and feels happy. Another person reading this information might think, "Well, this sounds good but I don't think I can do it." This person feels sad and discouraged. So it is not a situation that directly affects how people feel emotionally, but rather, their thoughts in that situation. When people are in distress, they often do not think clearly and their thoughts are distorted in some way. Cognitive behavior therapy helps people identify their distressing thoughts and evaluate how realistic the thoughts are. Then they learn to change their distorted thinking. When they think more realistically, they feel better. The emphasis is also consistently on solving problems and initiating behavioral change.

Q: What can I do to get ready for CBT treatment?

An important first step is to set goals. Ask yourself, "How would I like to be different by the end of therapy?" Think specifically about changes you'd like to make at work, at home, in your relationships with family, friends, co-workers, and others. Think about what symptoms have been bothering you and which you'd like to decrease or eliminate. Think about other areas that would improve your life: pursuing spiritual/intellectual/cultural interests, increasing exercise, decreasing bad habits, learning new interpersonal skills, improving management skills at work or at home. Your therapist will help you develop a goal list and decide which goals you might be able to work toward on your own and which ones you might want to work on in therapy.

Q: How do cognitive behavior therapists help patients become their own therapists?

At each therapy session, cognitive behavior therapists help patients specify the problems they have encountered during the week or that they expect to encounter in the current week. They then collect data to identify the ideas and behaviors that have interfered with patients' ability to solve problems themselves. Cognitive behavior therapists get patients actively engaged in deciding where to start working. Together, they develop an “action plan” or homework for patients (to do during the week) to implement solutions to problems or to make changes in their thinking and actions. This process gets patients actively involved in their own treatment; they begin to recognize that the way to get better is to make small changes in how they think and what they do every day. When treatment ends, patients are able to use the skills and tools they have learned in therapy in their day-to-day lives.

Q: What about medication?

Cognitive therapists, being both practical and collaborative, can discuss the advantages and disadvantages of medication with you. Many patients are treated without medication at all. Some disorders, however, respond better to a combination of medication and cognitive therapy. If you are on medication, or would like to be on medication, you might want to discuss with your therapist whether you should have a psychiatric consultation with a specialist (a psychopharmacologist) to ensure that you are on the right kind and dosage of medication. If you are not on medication and do not want to be on medication, you and your therapist might assess, after four to six weeks, how much you've progressed and determine whether you might want a psychiatric consultation at that time to obtain more information about medication.

Q: How can I make the best use of therapy?

One way is to ask your therapist how you might be able to supplement your psychotherapy with cognitive therapy readings, workbooks, client pamphlets, etc. A second way is to prepare for each session, thinking about what you learned in the previous session and jotting down what you want to discuss in the next session.
A third way to maximize therapy is to make sure that you try to bring the therapy session into your everyday life. Therapists should make sure you take home notes or a recording of anything you want to remember, both changes in your thinking and an action plan to follow during the week.

Q: How will I know if therapy is working?

Many patients notice a decrease in their symptoms within a few weeks of therapy, or even sooner, if they have been faithfully attending sessions and doing the suggested assignments between sessions on a daily basis.

Q: What are the most essential components of CBT treatment?

It's important to remember that cognitive behavior therapists use a different formulation for each psychiatric disorder. We use this formulation in conceptualizing the individual patient which is an essential component to developing a sound therapeutic relationship, setting goals, planning treatment, and selecting interventions. Building trust and rapport with patients from the very first contact, demonstrating accurate empathy, sharing the conceptualization with the patient (and making sure it “rings true” for the patient), and collaborating are also essential. Another important part of every therapy session is helping patients respond to inaccurate or unhelpful ideas. The basic question to ask when a patient is reporting a distressing situation, emotion, or dysfunctional behavior is: “What is going through your mind right now?” Once we help patients identify their dysfunctional thinking, we help them gain more adaptive and accurate perspectives, especially by helping them examine the validity and usefulness of their thoughts. We also help them design behavioral experiments to test the accuracy of their predictions.

I charge £80 per hourly session. Fees are payable by cash or cheque at the end of each session, and 24 hours' notice (one business day) is required for cancellation of any appointment to avoid incurring the full cost of a booked session.

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